Beauty For Ashes...

"...beauty instead of ashes, the oil of gladness instead of mourning, and a garment of praise instead of a spirit of despair. They will be called oaks of righteousness, a planting of the LORD for the display of his splendor." Isaiah 61:3

Thursday, March 8, 2012

My Sabbatical...

This is Ezra's little Brittish mate, Joshua. They were happy to be back together again. :)
Ezra in the cart at the airport. He was BURNING up, poor kid. For goodness sakes, his Mama had him dressed in a fleece snowman PJ thing!
Rub a dub dub- little boy in the laundry tub!
Going on a walk
Ezra in his Daddy's overalls :) Love this!
I found a pickle in the snow!

When I used to have the time, I can remember following blogs of people with babies. New babies, adopted babies etc and then... they stopped updating their blogs after a few months or after the baby came home. DROVE ME CRAZY! Now, I am officially that Mama. While in the states I proved that, clearly, I cannot work and be a mother AND blog. Especially with you American folks introducing me to a silly site called Pinterest. Actually, I take that back. I probably DID have time, but who was I updating the blog for? I was living in the same town as most of you folks! If I'm not blogging myself, chances are I'm not reading anyone else's either. One of my dearest friends is an avid blogger and I will never understand how she does it with all she has going on. Completely baffles me. I'm coming to terms with the fact that I will just not be able to catch up on the past nearly 4 months of her blog. Hopefully she just tells me the really important stuff.

Chris and I just watched a movie a couple nights ago called "Contagion". Watch it. Seriously. No nudity or sex, no guts n' gore, No swearing (not that I can remember), and most of all no zombies and vampires ;) Just an all around good flick. Starring Matt Damien, Jude Law, Gweneth Paltrow- it's about an outbreak of disease all over the world. It freaked Chris out a little.

Now, how is this relevant to my cute, sweet Ezra? I'm glad you asked.
I nearly forgot what it was like to have a baby here in Kenya. It's funny and scary all at the same time. When Ezra and I go walking/jogging I normally give people a half-hearted wave of some sort as I pass them. I feel mean or unfriendly if I don't. But I don't want to seem over friendly because I am on a mission after all and I don't want random people giggling Ezra's cheeks with their hands that I know they haven't washed because I JUST SAW THEM WEEING ON THE SIDE OF THE ROAD! It doesn't matter what kind of wave I give them anyway, because they only wave at Ezra. Yesterday, as we passed one man on our walk he kept snapping his fingers trying to get Ezra to look at him.
When I am at the grocery store with Ezra or really anywhere, it never fails. People walk right up to him and they take their middle finger and poke his fat cheeks...over and over and over again. Secretly I want him to hurry up and get his top teeth so he can bite them. Now, I'm really not that freaky about my baby and germs. I like to think he has an awesome immune system like his mother. Yes, he eats off the floor... any floor really. Even the airplane floor. Yick. I can't tell you the number of disturbing things he put his mouth on in the plane. I mean he's going to put gross things in his mouth. Children all over the world in all kinds of conditions put really disgusting things in their mouths.... and most of them are okay. I will admit that I don't always wash my hands after I use the toilet either. If my special soap I'm not allergic to isn't available, I might just run some water over my hands or only wash my fingers (where I don't have the skin breakdown and allergy) But he's also MY baby. Yesterday I had to have some passport photos made of Ezra for his Kenya Visa. As soon as I walked into the store an Indian customer walks over and starts poking/giggling Ezra's cheeks. He's not amazing, but the man is. Then he rubs his head like a genie will soon pop out of his mouth. I smiled and stood there as long as I could bare it, then picked Ezra up as he began getting quite annoyed by the man.
At the grocery store, they make the checkout lines for skinny people because there is NO extra room. I used to be anal about watching my groceries being rung up so I could check for over charges. Evidently those days are over. Ezra was grabbing everything in his reach... which was pretty much everything. From the condoms to the "Help Aids Orphans" money tin. Oh my. What a combo to grab, huh? My bag boy saw me stuggling and tells me to move so he can pull Ezra closer to him. Thankful for his help, I oblidged. Yep... you guessed it. More poking and giggling. Ezra was in a good mood and didn't seem to mind it, so I didn't either.

When we pull into mall type places (where the grocery stores are) there are security men with mirrors checking under you car and in your trunk for bombs. They have been doing this since the whole Al Shabab thing. When it comes to our car the security guys just walk along the side of the car then see Ezra and start waving and smiling at him and never look in our car or in their little mirror on wheels. Good thing we aren't Al Shabab, huh? He is pretty captivating.

I really love this culture and the way the swoon over my baby. Because I feel the same way exact way about their babies! Now can i please have one of theirs? ;)

Wednesday, October 26, 2011

Many "Firsts"...

Yea- I guess I'm THAT Mama.... you know the annoying one who posts and raves about how her baby rolled over. That Mama who takes photo's of ALL the babies first this and that. :) Yep- thats me and Im proud of it!



Ezra's first taste of avocado (juice)



Babu (CT's Dad) and Ez in church :) HE LOVES his Babu!
Ezra meets Maggie (actually he met her a long time ago only this is her first time holding him)
Ezzy on his first wart hog ride at Amani. I'm sure there will be many more of those to come!
There is a new lady in town- this is Faithful Hero Chancey. Ezra's first encounter with her- they both slept through their first meeting.

Poor kid- he doesn't seem so amused.

Sunday, October 2, 2011

Camping in the Mara!


Our camping pics... as promised:

As most of you know by now our engine blew on the way there. Fortunately we were following friends. Who ended up towing us back to the closest town. From there we had it towed back to Nairobi. We are STILL waiting for the new engine to be installed. What a nightmare this was.

But our friends talked us into continuing on with them. So we repacked and went on our merry way. So glad we did.
On the way, I assured Chris that God would take care of us and he would provide either $ for a new engine or a new vehicle. As soon as we got to the camp site- there was a sweet reminder one one of God's awesome promises.

Some cute, sweet thing turned 3 months while we were there :)

Hippos in the backgroud- can you see them?
The hippos were SUPER close to our camp site. I realized that they aren't the most graceful creatures. As a matter of fact, they are just plain rude. They constantly sound like they are farting. But it's actually just a noise they make with their mouths. (And here is TMI for you: they get out of the water to "doo" their business. As they are "dooing" it- they swing their tail back and forth really fast so they sling it EVERY WHERE! Guys, this is no joke. I had no idea these creatures were such weirdos)

Super cool tree that is actually NOT on a hill. I just thought it needed to be upright for the photo.
The gang and the trusty Land Rover

Does this animal look snotty or what? No clue what it is honestly.
Left- Jonathan and Sandras tent. Right- our tent (which was supposed to be our car. Hey it worked! And Ezra slept right in between us :)

THis next sequence of pics is from operation spoon rescue. After washing the dishes one night I threw the dirty water over the edge of the cliff. Afterwards CT said "Did you make sure there wasn't anything in there." "Of course, honey". The next morning Sandra said "I see 2 spoons down there!"
"Don't worry. My man will get them!"


Though this looks hilarious- it did not work.
So Chris ended up jumping off the cliff to get down there... woah.
GOT IT!
Boy did we get muddy on our game drive.. but it was SO worth it. VERY FUN

Muddy Aunt Sandra

Even little sleeping Ezra got muddy

Quick fix on the roof.
Sleeping in his tent
PICNIC! The first tree we stopped under had a bees nest! They came out and here we were unloading and the top was off the Landy. Jonathan is allergic and Flippi said he'd had an allergic reaction before. I just kept yelling "GET IN THE CAR" and I was trying so hard to cover up Ez who was in my lap by this point. Flippi ended up getting stung on the face and I was looking everywhere for a Benedryl. NOTHING. He assured me he would be okay...and he was. See that wasn't that great of a story. I was just so glad (since he didn't have a reaction)- that Flippi got it instead of Ezra
Mrs. Lion in the tree. Um... COOL! It's not every day you get to see this

Ezra and Mrs. Lion
Vultures eating the leftovers. Aren't they MEAN looking?

Balloon rides- we saw this view every single morning.
Another muddy pic of the Landy
Our kitchen tent and Paula cooking


Here is the only video I have- Flippi gave it to me- sorry it's not in english ;)

Tuesday, September 13, 2011

"If I had a million dollars...

I'd be rich..."
if i got a nickel every time i "thought" about updating this blog. I really do have the best intentions. At this point I can't justify blogging if i haven't done my quiet time. It wins every time. But there is so much to talk about and share about motherhood and this flippin amazing child!

Found him sleeping like this at Sandras's house- He loves his wubbanub! And he loves burrying his nose in whatever he is laying up against.
(Check out that strawberry hair!)

Since I posted last Ezra has begun:
- sucking his left thumb
-"talking back" (see video)
-believe it or not he has said "Mama" clear as day 3 times. (Call it coincidence- I don't care. And I have witnesses!) I've been working with him on this work for at least a month now.
-spitting up like a mad man
-teething :( poor puppy
-sleeping through the night... and then not sleeping through the night again. (Those teeth!)

I must say, my sweet husband is THE BEST DADDY! I mean really, he's amazing. To both Ezra and I. He makes us feel so loved and taken care of. At the end of his days, he comes in and plays with Ezra, changes diapers etc. Then he goes and cooks dinner. He does it all with joy on his face and so much love in his heart. Ez and I are SO SO blessed.

Chris and I realized about a month ago that we, as a family, need to have just that- family time. More for Chris than any one. He has a stressful job some days. He's now managing a 5,000 chicken farm for a ministry out of Orlando Florida. He's doing a fantastic job and has completely turned the farm around. I'm so proud of him. For all his hard work he gets compensated a little bit. We decided that we need to get out of Nairobi once a month, even if just for a day trip. The conditions are: 1. it must be cheap and 2. it must be on a weekend.

For our August trip we went to a small bungalow near lake Nivasha. We went driving on Saturday and saw zebra, giraffe, warthogs, antelope, and flamingos. Ezra slept through it all. Maybe next time.

For our September trip we are going camping in the Masai Mara this weekend. Since we don't really have camping gear, my clever man has rigged up a sleeping apparatus for our vehicle. (I didn't really want to sleep where the lions (or bears as Joy would say) could get us anyway. We are joining up with our South African friends (who ARE sleeping in tents). I am so excited. We've been talking about this for weeks. Yep, I am excited about digging our own potty, not bathing, sleeping in our Pajero, and eating beans and weenies every meal. Call me crazy, but I am pumped! And we'll be there just in time for Ezra's 3 month birthday. I PROMISE to post pics ASAP when we get back.

For now these are a few pics from our last trip
Front porch
Little bungalow!
Sweet boy with his sweet Daddy
i love the pillows at this little cafe! They are all made of Khanga.



Saturday, August 20, 2011

2 months...


This is our attempt at getting Ezras 2 month pics when he was sleepy AND hungry. Double Doosey!




Hmmm- maybe he's cold ??






2 month pictures... an epic fail. Better luck next month! :)